"Love
 is the only way to grasp another human being in the innermost core of 
his personality.  No one can become fully aware of the very essence of 
another human being unless he loves him.  By his love he is enabled to 
see the essential traits and features in the beloved person; and even 
more, he sees that which is potential in him, which is not yet 
actualized but yet ought to be actualized.  Furthermore, by his love, 
the loving person enables the beloved person to actualize these 
potentialities.  By making him aware of what he can be and of what he 
should become, he makes these potentialities come true." 
"A human being is not one thing among others; things determine each other, but man
 is ultimately self-determining.  What he becomes - within the limits of
 endowment and environment - he has made out of himself.  In the 
concentration camps, for example, in this living laboratory and on this 
testing ground, we watched and witnessed some of our comrades behave 
like swine while others behaved like saints.  Man has both 
potentialities within himself; which one is actualized depends on 
decisions but not on conditions."  "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor E. Frankl
 
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